25 Individuals Share The Most Profound ‘You’ll Understand When You’re Older’ Wisdom

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Life is a journey filled with lessons, and sometimes, the most profound wisdom comes from those who have traversed more miles on this winding path.

In a thought-provoking thread on Reddit, some individuals opened up about the deep and meaningful insights they received with the timeless adage, “You’ll understand when you’re older.” These shared experiences offer a glimpse into the invaluable wisdom that comes with age.

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#1

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How your body really does decline even if you do everything right (work out, maintain a good weight, good sleep, food, etc). When you’re young you can’t imagine not having the strength or energy to do anything you want. Then you get much older and your body can just give out on you.

#2

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How rare real friends you can count on.

#3

How awesome staying home can be if your home is comfortable and safe.

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#4

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Sleep is a gift, not a punishment.

#5

How much of a waste of time and mental energy it is to be very concerned with your looks. Especially as a woman. There’s a reason most makeup/fashion etc social media gals are in their 20s … older women have stopped giving a s**t. Doesn’t mean we’ve given up on our appearance, we’ve just realized we are naturally hot anyway and devoted our attention to other things that enrich our lives.

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#6

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How limited your own perspective is. It’s something you can really only learn with age, no amount of explaining will help a kid understand how biased they are towards their own lived experience.

#7

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“We got food at home.”

We sure as hell do and it cost me 10x less than any fast food place my kids point out every day.

#8

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It’s better to be alone than in bad company.

#9

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That sitting outside in a nice weather just doing absolutely nothing is a gift, and that you can really think of nothing.

#10

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Not everybody is going to like you, even if you’re a good person.

#11

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That turning 18 doesn’t make you an adult. Neither does graduating, getting your first place, getting married, or having a baby. It’s kind of a gradual thing, and then one day you’re excited because your favorite variety of potatoes are on sale, and you go “Oh, this is adulthood.”

#12

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Sex won’t make them love you and a baby won’t make them stay.

#13

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How fast time actually passes.

A year feels like an eternity as a kid. As an adult. i’m pretty sure I just blinked and missed my time since I left university.

#14

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From Time by Pink Floyd

And then one day you find
Ten years have got behind you
No one told you when to run
You missed the starting gun
And you run, and you run to catch up with the sun
But it’s sinking
Racing around to come up behind you again
The sun is the same in a relative way
But you’re older
Shorter of breath, and one day closer to death
Every year is getting shorter
Never seem to find the time

I heard this in the 80”s and never thought anything of it. After cancer and a heart attack it hits hard

Treasure the little things. Love where you can

#15

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“Annoying” or “boring” things like listening to older people tell stories or eating dinner with your family become precious memories when they’re gone. When we’re younger we take so many people in our lives for granted. You never know how much time you’re going to get. Be grateful for “boring”.

#16

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The joy of a good mattress.

#17

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How dumb you actually are as a teenager and well into your twenties.

We all thought we knew better, didn’t we? Some of us still do, but most of us have matured enough to realize that aside from maybe one or two topics, we know exactly two things: “Jack” and “S**t”, and Jack left town.

#18

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The importance of good posture and stretching.

#19

Sometimes, you don’t get closure, either as the victim of wrongdoing, or what I’m really talking about, as the perpetrator.

Let’s say you did someone badly, and you’ve really, honestly had a change of heart and mind, and you want to make amends.

If they don’t want to hear from you, and don’t want to forgive you, you’re out of luck. I know you want to put it to rest. But you don’t get to force your “sorry” on someone who may still be traumatized by your prior actions. They don’t owe you that opportunity for atonement. And insisting on them forgiving you, or even talking to you, is forcing them to relive the trauma from the first time, and re-traumatizing them.

It doesn’t matter that your intentions are pure. They have a right to be left alone.

If this happens to you, as the perpetrator, the only step left to you is to live with your guilt. How you go about that is up to you, as long as you continue a life of not hurting others. Get comfortable with that guilt, because no one owes you closure.

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#20

Comfort trumps all. Good warm socks and very comfortable shoes. Brands be damned.

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#21

Karma is a myth. Plenty of s****y people out here living their best life. So when people hurt you, dust yourself up and move on. Don’t wait on the “universe” to avenge you, it will not.

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#22

You really do stop caring about other people’s opinions. That self doubt you have in your 20’s where you’re always concerned about how you appear to others- it absolutely diminishes or goes away completely in your mid to late 30’s. For most people anyways.

As I’ve gotten older I’ve cared less and less about clothing trends, people pleasing, and sacrificing my own well being for the happiness or pleasure of others. I see TikTok’s from younger generations that talk about how millennials can change their style to look less old or dated. And I just can’t fathom who actually needs that information except younger folks who wanna dogpile on an older generation.

I can say with the utmost confidence, the vast majority of people have so much more to worry and care about than what a 20 year old thinks of the rise on their pants. You realize that the majority of people aren’t actually thinking about you at all, let alone what you’re wearing or how you look.

ETA- I’m not saying that no one should ever care about anyone else’s opinion ever. Some level of awareness is important. However, so many people spend so much time trying to become something or someone else in order to fit in. People spend so much money and time trying to be *that girl or guy*. Women especially have so much pressure to fit certain standards under the guise that everyone is watching and judging them. When you get older, you realize that the vast majority of that pressure was most likely a lie to either sell you something or to make you feel bad so others can feel better about themselves.

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#23

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Choosing your battles.

#24

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Pop music, slang, and other teen culture.

Teens always think they invented culture and their opinions are objective truth. Older people see those fads come and go every year and know they are just passing fads.

#25

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I would say that the world is not black and white. What seems to clear and straightforward becomes murkier and harder to cleanly divide as you get older.

It’s not (just) dementia: as you get older, you realize more and more what causes people to act the way they do and the roles of victim and perpetrator become harder to distinguish. The key concept is that victims become perpetrators.

Saumya Ratan

Saumya is an explorer of all things beautiful, quirky, and heartwarming. With her knack for art, design, photography, fun trivia, and internet humor, she takes you on a journey through the lighter side of pop culture.

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