20 People Share Stories Of How They Met Their Celebrity Hero And It Wasn’t All That Great

Published 11 months ago

If you’ve ever had a celebrity hero and had the opportunity to meet them, did it go according to expectation or was it a shocking disappointment? When one internet user asked Netizens’ online about their personal experiences meeting their celebrity ‘heroes’, people delivered their best, or worst, encounters as shared below. 

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idk if this was really her or not, but when I was like 9 I had messaged Ariana Grande on Facebook back in like 2010 when she was on the show Victorious. I told I was big fan and she called me a stupid b***h. It really hurt me and I stopped following her page after that. Lol


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Oh, this one is fun…

I went to a Blondie concert a few years ago and was allowed to go backstage with my friend who was with a talent marketing agency.

Debbie Harry was there talking to some people from the band, and we didn’t want to disturb her, so my friend asks one of the guys in the band if he could be in a picture with him instead. I had a pretty nice camera with me. This was nearly a couple of decades ago, so it was a camera with a roll of film inside. The guy in the band was fine with it, so I took the picture with my friend and the band member in the foreground, and Debbie in the background.

As soon as I took the picture, Debbie f*****g exploded on me! I explained the situation but she just freaked out and told me she’d call the cops if I didn’t give her the film roll in my camera rightaway and did I want to go to jail!?! I asked what she thought the cops would send me to jail for. She just pushed the decibels up one level and just repeated “Give it to me! Give me the f*****g film roll!” over and over.

At this point, I’m thinking – yes – this used to be Debbie Harry, but right now she’s just some crazy person, and I do have the option of just not interacting with crazy persons, so I just take a couple of steps to walk away.

Rightaway she screams like she’s just been stabbed or something. Just this loud, high pitch, continuous scream. These two enormous guys appear and she tells them to take my camera, the same way you’d imagine a queen saying “Off with his head!”.

The two heavy guys are like “Give us the camera or there’s gonna be trouble”. So, I pull out my phone and say “Right, I’m calling the cops”.

Something must have worked in the way I said this, because a person I assume was Debbie’s manager then says “OK, here’s what we’re gonna do. We’re gonna buy the film roll from you. How much do you want for it?” I say “I don’t know. I’ve got a few nice pictures on there. Maybe a hundred pounds for the trouble?”. Without flinching, he pulls out his wallet and, I don’t know, maybe he misheard me or he’s just not good with numbers, but he takes a whole wad of £50 banknotes and counts ten £50 notes out loud which he gives me. This is way more than what I asked for, so I’m completely confused by now, and I just open the camera and give him the film. The end.

Every time I listen to one of Blondie’s songs now, I keep wondering what it was that got her to freak out like that, or why this guy just gave me so much more for the film roll.


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I’ve never met anyone that was an idol of mine that I had a bad experience with.

However, my best friend growing up had his go so bad he ended what was nearly 20 years of fandom right then and there. He worked for one of the big shoe stores and had won a contest to go to the All Star festivities for the NBA. He met a lot of current and former player and coaches and had a blast. Until he met Michael Jordan. Being a sneaker head, my friend owned originals or rereleases of every shoe Jordan ever had up until that point. It was something like 30 shoes if you counted the different colorways. Posters, jerseys, trading cards, memorabilia of all types adorned a room at his apartment. He sees Jordan and decides to just kind of hang out until he is done talking and just get a quick meet and greet, no photo, no autograph, just to say hey. Jordan ends his conversation and my friend steps up near him and Jordan basically asks him who the f**k he is, what he wants and acts like an a*****e. My friend just tells him that he was a big fan and it was great to finally meet him. Jordan basically says, “yeah, whatever” and walks away.

He got home from the trip and started selling off his collection of shoes and all things Jordan. He had heard the stories and assumed they were just overblown or didn’t happen. Nope, Jordan is a c**k in real life.


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My dad was working for a baseball team in Rochester, New York when he was in his late teens/early 20’s. One day, Mickey Mantle came for some charity or promotional event or something. My dad, being a boy in the 50’s and into sports, was obviously a HUGE fan and was awestruck when he was approached by him.

Turns out, Mickey was a big ol’ jerk (maybe just in a bad mood that night?) that didn’t look up at him and literally just huffed out a “Take me to a steakhouse”. My dad, being somewhat of the odds and ends guy for the team, obliged and took him to the best in town. Mickey sat across from him–just the two of them at the table–all night with his head down as he ate. My dad says he never looked up ONCE. Didn’t say a SINGLE WORD to him.

Afterwards, my dad, an errand boy at a minor league baseball team, was left with the check as Mickey went to go to the car to have my dad drive him back to his hotel. Rode in and left the car without saying a word.

My dad likes to say he met Mickey Mantle and spent all night staring at the small balding spot on the top of his head.

To be fair, another baseball player came the next year–Whitey Ford (another famous Yankee)–and said “Where’s *Dad’s name*? Mickey told me to find this kid, *Dad’s name*, and have him take me to that steakhouse.” So, my dad got to spend a very pleasant evening with Whitey Ford, another hero of his that eventually turned into a semi-friend/mentor.

EDIT: Spelling


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I grew up with a poster of Cameron Diaz on my wall. Always thought she was the dopest. Then I met her and she was rude, stuck up, and made me get out of an elevator I was already in so she could ride it up alone. We were going to the same event. She later didn’t acknowledge the elevator ride when we were introduced by a mutual friend. Made me think she’s always like that. She may be hot but I wouldn’t touch it with a ten foot pole anymore.


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My best friend drives for a luxury taxi line and drove Ed sheeran to his concert. Ed gets in my friends car, my friend is greeting him ,he doesn’t even say hello back. My friend tells him few seconds later : „ Hello my name is… I am your driver today and i am sorry but i just have to tell you i really enjoy your music and its really an honor for me to drive you to your concert.“
Ed, the a*****e he was, just looked at him and said „yeah whatever“ and put his earphones on.
Yeah you can imagine, my best friend doesn‘t like him since that moment.


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Peter Weller. Excuse me… DOCTOR Peter Weller, as he liked to tell everyone. Yelled at the young woman taking money at his table for him. Yelled at people in line. Yelled at me. Yelled at the people after me. Should’ve been named Peter Yeller.

If I saw him laying in the street, I wouldn’t bother to walk around him. I’d casually step on him and keep walking.

Fortunately, I’ve met other people who I was warned ahead of time that they’re not nice at all – William Shatner and Keir Dullea come to mind – and they ended up being really polite and conversational.


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Not my story, but my dad was once kicked out of a restaurant because John Travolta wanted to eat there and made them clear the entire place out in the middle of everyone else’s meals.


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My mate is a huge Batman fan and was dragged along to see Val Kilmer at one of his Q&A tours. Val proceeded to be a huge d**k while my mate was trying to ask a question. I keep hearing he’s awfully rude towards his fans but now I have a first hand account to confirm.


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when my friends & i were like 17-18? we went to see an X Factor taping recording when Demi Lovato(disney star who was a judge on the show) was pulling out of the studio drive way & my friend just said “omg i love you so much, you saved my life” & she was so angry & just said “get the f**k away from me.” in the bitchiest manner ever & drove off. she is bipolar but he still never liked her after that & was so heartbroken


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I didn’t meet them but when I was 15-16 I was obsessed with New Kids on the Block, in love and miraculously they came to my hometown in Mexico.

I got a ticket, proceeded to cry on the shoulder of a random girl in front of me and then…Donnie f*****g Wahlberg tried to get the spanish speaking audience to sing along and we didn’t because, Spanish. So Donnie gets frustrated and yells at us: F**k You!!

A lot of people didn’t understand so they’re clapping and cheering but I’m standing there dumbfounded and heartbroken. I stayed until the end of the concert but once I got home I got rid of the NKOTB posters and stopped being a fan.

F**k you, Donnie, you piece of s**t.


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My grandpa worked as a bartender at a very fancy hotel in my city years ago. One day, in walks Mick Jagger. My grandpa never knew much about the Rolling Stones but he knew the rest of us were fans, so when he served him at the bar, he asked for an autograph. Jagger didn’t say anything but wrote something down on a cocktail napkin. When my grandpa looked at it, it read “f*ck you”. He didn’t even sign his name. Just a d**k move in my opinion.


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I have some interesting stories as I interned at MuchMusic, the Canadian MTV, years ago and got to meet a few celebrities, as well as worked at TIFF. I’m a big music/movie fan so this was a cool opportunity.

1. Ryan Reynolds, I know he’s a twitter/Deadpool darling, but he was a real prick when he was to do an interview with us. This is back in 2009. He was scheduled for an interview to promote a movie. This being Toronto, and in February, it was really friggin’ cold outside. Fans of his lined up outside the building at around 6ish; Ryan was scheduled to interview at 8am. Anytime fans got a glimpse of him they lost it. Ryan Reynolds was completely disinterested in his own fans, didn’t bother to go out and acknowledge them. I was a P.A., and told him if he wanted he could mingle with the fans before his interview. Didn’t make eye contract and said “nah”. Treated most of the crew like s**t and ducked out early. He’s talented, maybe he was having a bad day, but he didn’t look strssed, just prima donna behavior which I abhor.
2. Fall Out Boy. Not so much a******s or anything, just a moment of, “these guys are human beings like anyone else”. I asked what food they wanted before their interview; they all requested alfredo fettucini, so it was my job to get it. Well, believe it or not, there were no nearby italian places I go to in time to get alfredo fettucini (remmeber these guys all have tight schedule). They acted like I told them their dogs died; moping, extreme sadness, it was really weird. Still, they were nice, but the “celebrity” illusion was shattered and it was an awkward moment.
3. Michael Mann. I was excited to meet him (Heat is an all timer for me), and he was in town for TIFF; my job was to be his minder. Well, he was literally just a senile old, no REALLY old/elderly man who could hardly get around and didn’t really talk much.
4. For the canucks, if anyone remembers Karl Wolf (he did that crappy rap cover of Africa), he was a REAL piece of work, and truly believed he shat nothing but vanilla ice cream and was god’s gift to men and women.
5. Peter Weller aka Robocop is a sarcastic a*****e in real life; if you’re not on his level you’ll perceive him as a real prick.

Flipside: I did get to meet Taylor Swift as well and she was an absolutely sweetheart (she also smelled heavenly, need her perfume).

Robert Pattinson looked like a dirtball when he was at Much promoting one of the Twilight films (along with the other cast), but was a really humble and nice guy. You could tell he didn’t give a s**t about Twilight and was kind of embarrassed of the whole thing, but would excitedly talk about other projects he would have lined up.

Rachel McAdams came to TIFF a few times and was also a sweetheart (lives in the city). I mena, she’s Rachel McAdams, she doesn’t need to pay to see her own movies or any movie at the TIFF Lightbox theatre, but anytime she comes in, keeps a low profile and pays for the films. Humble as hell.

I also volunteer at the Metro Convention centre, we had WWE here so I got to meet a bunch of the wrestlers while working on the floor. All super nice (and ridiculously fit) folks.

I have so many more but these are top of my head.


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This is my Ex boyfriends story but I think it fits. He went to a talk with Adam Savage from Mythbusters. Now, my ex is not a tall guy. Adam made his way through the crowd, turned to look at one of the stage people, ELBOWED my ex in the face, and kept walking. But it gets better. My ex went to another talk on a separate occasion hoping to meet Adam and get a signature and apology for last time, Adam stepped on him on his way to the next stage. My Ex forever hated Adam Savage after that.

My ex was an emotionally abusive a*****e with severe narcissism. Adam Savage will forever be my hero for elbowing him in the face.


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Went to a large comic book show probably 10 years ago or so with my GF. Generally go with a bunch of comics we want to get autographed and meet the creators. Standard stuff.

Todd McFarlane is one of the big guests to be there and we manage to get decently close to the front of his line, but before he’s actually there. That’s OK, we’re used to this kind of thing. He’s supposed to be there in an hour.

So, we start by taking turns, one person waits on line while the other takes a couple of comics over to another creator, meets them, gets a sig or 3. We generally care about meeting different folks so that’s fine. Over an hour goes by, someone comes through the line and said he’s not here yet, expect it to be another hour.

OK, so we do some more taking turns getting other sigs. A second hour goes by, and now we’re told it’ll be a bit longer and they’re limiting people to 3 sigs each. OK….

Another half hour goes by, and now we’re told it’ll be a bit longer, and they’re limiting it to 1 sig per person. WTF, but OK.

Another 30 mins goes by, so 3 hrs from when we got in line (don’t even know how long it was for the people at the front) and he finally shows up, 2 hrs after he said he would be there and by how they kept cutting down how many books we could each get signed, obviously still planning on staying until he had originally planned to leave (not staying longer to make up for the time he was late).

As we’re getting up to the front, dude’s not even acknowledging people as they walk up to him. They try to say anything, he says nothing, quickly signs and shoos them away. Until we get there. Because one of us is a girl. He stares my GF down in the creepiest way possible while continuing to ignore the rest of us. She doesn’t have much to say to him at that point, so just got the sig and moved on. As we’re walking away, he continues to stare her down, ignoring people in line after us.

On the flipside, Jim Lee was the f*****g man. We were in line for him and he was told that his time was up and he had to stop. Everyone was bummed that they waited on line for nothing. He gets up and loudly announces to everyone on line for him that he was told his time’s up, so he’s sorry he won’t be able to really meet everyone else, do any sketches, or take pictures, but if everyone can each take out 2 things they want signed, have them opened to wherever we want him to sign, he’s going to quickly walk down the line and sign 2 things for each person so they at least get something for waiting in line. And while he did that, he was chatting with each person who said something to him, at least smiling and saying hi to each person who didn’t. He knew fans had waited in line a long time and wanted to thank them for doing so.


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I used to love science as a kid, and I’d watch a ton of Bill Nye the Science Guy. He was autographing stuff at the St. Louis Science Center, I think I was about 8 or 10 years old and super f*****g excited to see him. My mom bought me a poster with dinosaurs on it that he could sign for me.

Waited about 5 minutes in line to see a very bored, pissed off Bill Nye. Told him I really liked his show and that I want to be a paleontologist when I grow up. He literally said “yeah whatever kid” under his breath, and signed my poster then loudly said “NEXT!”

I wasn’t too bothered about it tbh, but I remember my mom being like “huh he was kind of an a*s, wasn’t he?”

To be fair he didn’t just sign the poster, he also left a quick little note that said “follow your dreams” or some s**t. I’ll give Bill the benefit of the doubt on this one, I just think he was just bored and tired from signing stuff for little kids for hours straight. I would be too!


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Opposite answer, because of course it is, but Dee Snyder. I was 19 and working at a Hard Rock Cafe and he was judging some mid-level battle of the bands thing. I was raised on hair metal and Twisted Sister was a favorite of mine, plus I’d never met anyone famous before. He made his small entourage stop so he could sign a napkin for me, shake my hand, and the best part was his first question: “So how long have you been rocking?” “Since I was 13 and I’ve never stopped!” “Rock on little lady!”

Very nice man, very pleased to see enthusiasm. Great hand shake and eye contact, which couldn’t have been easy since he’s easily a foot taller than I am.

His daughter (?) on the other hand was a damned bint, though. I barely got out the perfunctory “Welcome to the Hard Rock!” before she shoves up front and gets in my face with a snotty “Do you even *know* who this is?” like how dare I impede the way of greatness in all my unwashed splendor. And of course dopey me only stutters out “…yeah, that’s Dee Snyder.”

So, Mr. Snyder? Class act. Seemed genuinely happy to pause for five minutes to talk with a young metal fan. Has one of the best opening lines. 10/10 would love to meet him again (especially since his signed napkin got “lost” in my divorce)

Whoever was with him riding coat tails? I hope her bleach blond hair never holds a proper curl for longer than 10 minutes and goes brassy.


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Neil Degrasse Tyson was a real a*****e to the crowd when he spoke at Mississippi State University around 8 years ago. The talk was a bit condescending, and it ended in a Q&A where he told a person with a question about pluto to put their hand down in the most serious and offended voice ever. This pretty fresh after the pluto isn’t a planet thing, so I’m sure he was sick of hearing it, but he was just an a*****e in general. I guess I was expecting a student of Carl Sagan to be as awesome as Carl Sagan, which was my f**k up.


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In high school I really loved *Ender’s* *Game*. One summer I went to a writing workshop taught by Orson Scott Card. He spent the first 20-30 minutes talking about how immoral homosexuality is. Of course now I know he’s a nut, but young me didn’t.


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I meet dave chapel.. Bigger a hole than at his shows. I just said hi im from Canada and i like your show. He sad f**k canada, maybe he was having a bad day.

Shanilou Perera

Shanilou has always loved reading and learning about the world we live in. While she enjoys fictional books and stories just as much, since childhood she was especially fascinated by encyclopaedias and strangely enough, self-help books. As a kid, she spent most of her time consuming as much knowledge as she could get her hands on and could always be found at the library. Now, she still enjoys finding out about all the amazing things that surround us in our day-to-day lives and is blessed to be able to write about them to share with the whole world as a profession.

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